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Offline Karolajnka

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Question for every girl in relationship
« on: August 14, 2013, 12:01:50 AM »
Hey girls I'm dealing with an issue. Well , I cought my boyfriend masturbating few times ( one of them was when he was "sleeping" next to me and I accidentaly woke up) . He keeps doing it even if we have sex almost every day. I know its a guy thing but I feel miserable. Does anyone have an experience with something similar ? Should I freak out like I always did or just deal with it ? Please help

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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
« Reply #1 on: August 14, 2013, 09:31:14 PM »

Hey girls I'm dealing with an issue. Well , I cought my boyfriend masturbating few times ( one of them was when he was "sleeping" next to me and I accidentaly woke up) . He keeps doing it even if we have sex almost every day. I know its a guy thing but I feel miserable. Does anyone have an experience with something similar ? Should I freak out like I always did or just deal with it ? Please help

Maybe he can't help himself or you not be fulfilling his needs. Try something new. If you see him masturbating stop him and you finish. Or simply ask why he does it. Anymore Questions Message Me I'll be Glad to help.

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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2013, 07:51:09 AM »
Ima be straight up with you... Give him head.. Maybe he'll stop? If I knew my bf was doing that I would give him more head.. Or just ask him if sex with you isn't enough..

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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2013, 08:30:39 AM »
Men are horndogs! They think about sex all the time! I would be worried if my man wasn't masterbating! Lol! What would worry me is if he was masterbating and not having sex with me! My hubby plays with himself every single night! And I have caught him a few times playing with himself in his sleep. He has also had sex with me while he was sleeping lol! It's just the way men are! Nothing to be worried about! Maybe u need to step it up a bit! Get him a masterbating toy! We have all sorts of toys to play with together! Makes things fun!

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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
« Reply #4 on: August 24, 2013, 12:55:08 PM »

Hey girls I'm dealing with an issue. Well , I cought my boyfriend masturbating few times ( one of them was when he was "sleeping" next to me and I accidentaly woke up) . He keeps doing it even if we have sex almost every day. I know its a guy thing but I feel miserable. Does anyone have an experience with something similar ? Should I freak out like I always did or just deal with it ? Please help

Have you tired giving him a really awesome handy whenever he feels the need to masterbate?

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Re: Question for every girl in relationship
« Reply #5 on: August 24, 2013, 04:14:08 PM »
Hey girls I'm dealing with an issue. Well , I cought my boyfriend masturbating few times ( one of them was when he was "sleeping" next to me and I accidentaly woke up) . He keeps doing it even if we have sex almost every day. I know its a guy thing but I feel miserable. Does anyone have an experience with something similar ? Should I freak out like I always did or just deal with it ? Please help


Do NOT freak out about it! I hear women complaining about their men/husbands masturbating and/or watching porn and they get soooo upset! Obviously every relationship is different but if the intimacy is that bad between you two, then you would probably know. If not, then thats a whole different problem altogether. I have NEVER met a man who didn't masturbate once he was committed (most don't admit it because lots of women take it personally), even if they do have sex everyday! And it has nothing to do with the relationship or how good or bad the sex was. Everyone knows what works for them, where the 'right spot' is and sometimes it's easier and faster to do it yourself sometimes. I actually think its healthy too. Don't take offense to it! I have asked to watch my man touch himself and he's watched me in the past. It was something new and fun to do. Plus I like seeing him pleased, just like he does with me. I know that I can get myself off faster than anyone else I have EVER been intimate with because I know MY body. And even though I have a great sex life with my man, I also like my 'alone time' and that won't ever stop. So don't be so insecure about it and let it be. If you want to be involved more with him, ask him if you can watch...you might even learn a few tips. :) And I would bet he would like to watch you too. I would bet money that you aren't doing anything wrong, so don't worry about it so much!